Sometimes situations or actions are very easily understood and sometimes not. Often all it takes for understanding is to be told why the sudden change in behavior or actions. The mind will understand even if the heart does not agree.
It is very hard to understand why at the beginning of a conversation everything seems to be fine and then after maybe 90 minutes, one senses something is definitely wrong, asks and is told “I don’t know”. Conversations ends after about 30 more minutes.
One is anxious about what happened and how and why he/she could feel such a change, but he/she does not initiate another conversation and attempts to do so by the first party are ignored.
Is this the way a real friendship is suppose to be—not to understand what was, is or will be or why?????
I do “Thank You” for helping me climb out of the valley and to the mountain top. I know I can’t always stay on the top of the mountain ( am not there now), but know that because of you, your words of encouragement and compliments, and disbelief of some of my facts, I will NEVER be in the valley or anywhere near again. THANK YOU!!!!!!
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