Folks, I know that I promised more posting, but most of the events in my life since January 11 have been a very bad dream if not a nightmare.
Friday afternoon, January 11, the dad of my best friend from high school was diagnosed with lung cancer. The doctor said he was in stage 4 of a very aggressive and invasive type of cancer and he only had 6 to 8 weeks left to live. Also, that he should not be in much pain but have shortness of breath.
DH and I visit him at the hospital on Sunday night. Mr. Jack is still being his jolly self. I sit beside his bed and tell him I may get emotional but I have to tell him something. You see, this man saved my life when I was a young teenager and I had never thanked him and had not thanked him since I became of age for allowing me to go on family vacations, being treated as one of his other children.
He saved my life! The family had gone to the beach on vacation and I as usual was invited to go. The daughter and I had been playing in the ocean and I started drifting out to sea. I was lucky enough to drift toward the pier and grabbed hold of a piling, but was so far out, I had to lift myself by using the piling when the waves would come in. I CANNOT SWIM. Mr. Jack swam out and rescued me. Did he put his life in danger to do so, I do not remember and he did not even remember the incident. His daughter remembered.
Mr. Jack died Friday the 18th. I had hoped to visit him at home, but that did not happen. I was very shocked when I found out that he had died so soon. Not only is his daughter my friend, but I considered Mr. Jack to also be a very dear friend.
Even tho I have visited the family at home, went to family visitation at the funeral home and attended the funeral and burial, it still does not seem quite real but I know that it is.